Usually the sale of the house is part of what the judge requires in the division of property in the divorce. It's all part of the settlement. Not sure why your H is trying to push it on you at this point. Are you on the deed/loan as owner also? If so, then he can't make you sell the house until the divorce is finalized. Definitely get a lawyer because depending on your state, even if your name isn't on the home (unless your H owned it before the marriage & there was an agreement that it was to be his in a pre-nup. Sounds more like intimidation & a lawyer is definitely needed for you.