Not exactly. When I asked for the hug I also said that I know she will probably say no because it is not appropriate. After we talked about why I need her to hug me/what it means for me etc. T agreed that it wouldn't be appropriate and asked me how I felt about that. I said I didn't know. T knew I didn't want to talk about it anymore and asked if I wanted to come back to it later and if I want to change the subject. I guess I will have to talk to her about this more next week.