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Originally Posted by kecanoe
Man do I understand that feeling of disappointment when my needs are not met. The adult parts know that it is not t's job but the young ones still long for it. And it makes me angry and I want to distance myself both to lessen/contain the hurt and in hopes that the person will come after me so that I will know they care. I wonder if I want "proof" because t1 won't/can't say that he cares/loves/whatever so I want him to show me?
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Yes, T and talked a lot about me trying to contain my feelings. She said that is why I want a hug and also why I SH. I never made that connection before but it makes sense. T likened it to a jack-in-the-box because I try to stuff my feelings down but they spill out eventually and then I try to contain them again.