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Old Jun 16, 2016, 07:57 AM
DechanDawa DechanDawa is offline
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Originally Posted by prefabsprout View Post
I have heard about DBT but not really sure what it is. Will have a mosey on over to the forum you mention.

Thanks for this thread, could you give me an example of how DBT works for you?

Ty

Mostly DBT is about regulating emotions and learning and applying life skills. I have a difficult time with anxiety, depression, and feeling overwhelmed. DBT has been helping me take it one day at a time. Also, there are just loads of skills. Such as, "Improving the moment," is one. When I wake up I usually feel very overwhelmed. So I work on doing things to help me feel less overwhelmed. Since I am in the middle of a move I need to prioritize what needs to be done. However, a hot bath relaxes me so sometimes I will start out the day with a hot bath. It seems to relax my muscles which get very tense. I also try "Riding the emotion like a wave," which means if I feel sadness or fear instead of changing it I just let it roll out. This is tricky, though, and you might also need to practice "changing the emotion" by doing something different. I have about an hour right now before I start the day's tasks. So I am going to take a hot bath, get dressed comfortably, write in my journal for about 10 minutes, take out the trash and go to my corner cafe for take-out coffee. There are tons of skills to learn in DBT...the best way is to go online and read about them, and to invest in purchasing a workbook. You can also do a program and/or work with a DBT trained therapist, but those aren't options for me at this time. Good Luck.
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