I very much agree with what has said above, by all. I am sorry you didn't get the hug you wanted or needed, but good for you for asking. I too think it is crazy to analyse such a basic human requirement or desire. I understand if the T themselves does not feel comfortable with it but I think it would be a lot to ask to ask someone to explore their 'feelings' around this instead of just saying it how it is. Do talk about it again though if that feels right for you to do. Hugs from me.