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Originally Posted by scorpiosis37
Right now, this is al just a fantasy. No, I do not think it is possible to love someone let alone know if there is any compatibility or chemistry without meeting in person. If you really want to pursue something with this guy, why not meet in person? If it's too difficult to even arrange a meeting after one year, then either one or both of you is not serious about even seeing if this might work.
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partially agree. IT is possible to be infatuated, even fall for someone online but it's only on a certain level. you get to know the person inside their mind more than anything. Which leaves out the physical. Which is very important so I agree that meeting is important, there is some chemistry intellectually but the physical needs to be there. That's not to say that online romance and feelings do not exist or are completely unimportant, only that it's only part of the equation. You may love the person's intellect and have things this way in common but in order to know if they are the one that is for you entirely a meeting must happen.
I just won't write off online romance as invalid or non existent. it is not a fantasy if both people are being real intellectually, but it's just limited.