I'm sorry to swoop in here late in the thread. But, what you are doing may be dangerous. If you are both tripping on a fantasy and it will come to nothing, fine. But I think you need to discuss that and put it in perspective with this man. He may believe everything to be real and true, and may go to force you into some real commitment. When you try to pull away from him, he may freak out and get violent. He may kidnap you. I hate to be an alarmist, but I am very serious. I had an incident that had to end with a restraining order and this is a little similar in how the phone relationship has gone down a commitment path.

And I did not meet my man by his being a random stranger online! Who started out as a self proclaimed stalker!

My gut tells me that if he has not already tried to see you in person, he is not going to at all. But, this is going way too far emotionally, and it really could get very dangerous. You are playing with fire!