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Originally Posted by Candle in the wind
Hello!
I just read your story.
i just would like to say, you can be anyone you want to be on line, behind a screen
i say take yourself off the discount shelf and place yourself among the valuables.
Your worth more than that.  |
Thank you for your input. I'm just confused about why I seem like I'm on the discount shelf. lol.
I don't ask this guy to PayPal me $2 in order to chat with me like I'm some discount cam girl, or something.
Maybe that's how he sees me? I don't know. That's not how I see myself, though.
He is actually the one doing more people pleasing and jumping through hoops in order to get my attention. I push him away time and again just to have him forgive me and jump through more hoops to get more of my attention.
I'm avoiding real life relationships because of the complication. I just want to stay home. Its safer. Fantasy relationship? Less complicated.
If I can guarantee this man won't show up at my door and act dangerous and creepy, then, its fine. I highly doubt he will.
@ TishaBuv I'm very sorry you went through what you went through.
As for him being a woman. Well, he has sent me some voice recordings, including my name. That satisfied me enough that the voice was really behind the text. Unless "she" had a man over at the time that did it for "her"...
But why would a woman do that? A lesbian?