I think "discount shelf" comment was in regards to you not valuing yourself high enough. Yes he goes to great length to be able to continue stalking you, but it's not like he is nice kindhearted high class gentleman. He is kind of opposite of that. I think people are trying to tell you that you deserve better. Even if just online, it could be with someone less scary and more pleasant.

Have you ever skyped or face time? After a year in a relationship do you know how each other looks?

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