There's this one ventriloquist/comedian that my wife I said if he ever comes to town we want to go see him. Well he is coming & we bought some tickets. The event/concert is Saturday night. The closer it gets the more nervous & anxious I get about it. I'm to the point now where I'd rather just stay home. She has a friend that can go with her but she wants me to go. How do I tell her I really don't want to go without it coming across as if it's something I want to do I will find a way to do, but if it's something she wants to do then I'm not interested. I have never been to a concert of any type. I just do t like large groups of people.