I think in the beginning it's easy to do, just take your time getting to know them, spread the visiting out no matter how much you want to spend time with them, so that you can really see who they are over a period of time. The ones who rush you are the ones to look out for, they know what their problems are - but don't want you to until they get something that they want from you, if you make them prove themselves then either-a person will prove themselves good for you, and worth the pedestal. Or not.

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