You met 'him' by him randomly messaging you online. He started out aggressive and threatening by telling you he is stalking you. He won you over by wearing you down and giving you the romance, sweet talk that you wanted. He has no intention of ever seeing you in person, this is just a typing romance. He makes every typical excuse that a catfish makes for not being who they say.

All of this is proof that this is the very definition of a catfish.

This person is getting off on the fantasy relationship with you. He/she's a very lonely, desperate person.

My guess is if you got real with them, demanding that they Skype with you, they will just disappear.

Seriously, you should write into the TV show Catfish. They choose real people and expose their cases and confront the catfish. They might choose you.

Now, knowing that this person might really be a 60 year-old woman, prison inmate, Godzilla look-alike, will you still find them dreamy? Lol