I did that in my previous relationship, but I was young and stupid and he was my first bf, so I'm completely forgiven, for that almost fatal error.


My remedy?


I don't date potential.


Just No!


My bf is as he should be (with obvious room for improvement as we all are), but I'm not closing my eyes to things I wish were different or ways in which he'd mature or change.


He doesn't have the potential to be an awesome friend, partner and father, he already is all of that.


So yeah, that was my remedy and I swear by it, "No dating potential".