People often act as if being outgoing is no better than being introverted, and it is considered totally acceptable to tell someone to their face that you see them as more introverted. For example people at work have said that about me. But at the same time, I often see people say that more outgoing guys are more attractive to girls than more introverted guys. If this is the case, then isn't it an insult to tell someone they are introverted? It is basically like you are telling them they aren't as attractive as the more extroverted person. In my book that isn't ok. Next time someone tells me I am an introvert should I tell them to go eat a turd?