You're not in a lose-lose situation. You are just finding another thing to blame.

I am a mix of introvert and extrovert. I often act more extraverted as I leaned how to - but inwardly I am quite introverted. When I was younger I was definitely shy an introverted.

I like extraverted people. I like introverted people. I have had relationships with extraverted men. I have had relationships with introverted men.

Introverted doesn't mean boring. It means that you are more internal. Often quiet, sometimes shy. But boring? No. I know lots of very amazing introverted people whom I am never bored with. I also know plenty of extraverted people who bore me to death!