As an introvert, I can almost for 98% say I am sure in general being extrovert is more attractive to females.

And female extroverts are more attractive to males. Just ask yourself this question. What do you prefer?

And even when the introvert is actually more attractive, you won't notice it as fast.

Of course, every day many people fall hopelessly in love with introverts, but I would say not because they are introvert.
And there's a lot of extrovert losers out there.

That said, you can learn to be extrovert or fake yourself as an extrovert.



I can relate to being slow to generate a response in social environments. Some people instantly have the exact best counter or continuation. For me, sometimes never pops up. Or an idea comes up and you want to second guess yourself and you discard it, but then no alternative emerges.