Hello Summer Daze: It's been a few days since you posted this. I'm sorry you have received no replies. The Skeezyks is not in this situation. But I do know something about getting irritated or frustrated & feeling guilty after I snap at my spouse (when I do... which is too often I fear...) I struggle with a lot of generalized anxiety plus I have a quick temper. It doesn't take much to set me off. I'm aware of it... & I try not to do it... but it seems like inevitably I do.

The other problem that my spouse & I have (especially me...) is that I'm not very communicative when it comes to talking about what set me off or how I felt about being "snappy". I suspect this would go a long way toward healing the wounds. I hope you & your loved one are better at this than I am...