I've heard from others that eHarmony is not very good, and I also hated the companion site. Very expensive, few results, and ridiculously restrictive when you didn't cough up the cash. I didn't think Match was that great either. There are other places that are free that allow you to have the ability to message people, see their profiles, etc, and you only pay if you want extra services. (And mental health problems seem to be an issue on the dating sites wherever you go. Being honest about not being full of rainbows and sunshine is like kryptonite to your chances. But what are you going to do? Ugh, it irritates the hell out of me.)