I don't think you are over-reacting at all. Seeing someone lose control of their anger enough to punch a wall would be terrifying to anyone who's been hit.

It sounds like a good sign that he is willing to work on things in a more safe and reasonable manner. I'd say at this point, you're ok and no reason to be concerned yet. But at the same time, your reaction was TOTALLY appropriate to the situation and don't deny yourself those feelings!

If it gets to be a problem in the future, maybe you and your husband could get some counseling. At this point, though, it sounds like you'll be ok

((((safe hugs)))) if you want them

Angela