The real question is what are YOU getting out of talking to these aggressive, stalkerish, creepy men online? What is missing from your life? What is stopping you from making healthy, real friendships or relationships? Why don't you value yourself more? What do you do for a living that you have 6hrs a day to be online chatting with these men? What else could you be doing with that time that might make you happier or improve your self esteem?