Ooooh, that does sound like a "good" session. I remember the times we explored the anger/connection thing, how it's hard to "feel"/know you are connected when you're angry, especially with T and yet it is necessary to express those feelings.

No throwing up with the me, me, me! You only want it to be about you without the hand coming your way! That's "normal"!!! When you are working/talking/thinking/being, it should be about you, that's the only person it can be about. When people relate to you it should be about you, all the time, but without that damn hand in there, only hurting, only being about the person on the other end of it.