It is a sad truth that no one knows how girls think, not even girls. Just kidding. The other half of the human race are just as diverse and different, and there are some women who like an outgoing gobby git (I am not prejudiced) and others who prefer the quiet sort of fellow. You just have to find those who are compatible. If you are as intelligent, witty, charming and slightly reserved like me you may have to search long and hard through the dross to find the right person. I managed it, so can you.