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Originally Posted by divine1966
You might not agree but that's what I think.
I am not sure why you need to be sorry and apologize to him. You did nothing wrong. He seems to be reappearing every time he needs sex. I understand he might be depressed but he seems to be feeling well enough to have sex twice in one week but then he is again so depressed he can't even text back? Unfortunately when a man has sex with a woman and then disappears, it is a bit of a a... hole behavior. This is second time he does it.
Inviting you over pretty much means " come to my house for sex". Respectful men date women before having sex. Also when respectful men aren't ready for a relationship, they don't immediately follow up with sex. They don't lead women on. If he just wanted a supportive friend then he wouldn't sleep with you
I personally think you deserve better and I wouldn't pursue this man any further.
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Thanks for your thoughts, I appreciate them. And I have definitely thought about it in this light, myself. Sometimes I just feel like it's my fault, because he told me he didn't want a relationship, and I let him sleep with me, and then on top of that asked for his reassurance. The reality is that I do want to date him, but now I feel like he wouldn't even want me as a friend. And I feel like he doesn't have a lot of people to turn to, as his parents are having a rough time, and he doesn't have close friends.