Hedgeleaf I'm so glad your daughter has not been one to one contact with this man, although I understand the horrible feeling knowing he has met her.

A while ago I discovered a former friend (we had dated as youngsters) had been convicted of possessing imagery, I also felt sick thinking I had shared thoughts and feelings with someone capable of this. Many people close to him felt betrayal that he had done this. People have very visceral reactions to this type of crime and there is a good reason - as a species we have an inbuilt instinct to protect our young.

If you have people you can talk this over with then I'd recommend, that helped me. Post here if you need to vent it out.