I didn't know I had a response to this.

I feel like with this particular friend that I don't have much to say. I feel as though we are not connected like we used to be hardly texting/talking. I don't want to lose my friendship with him and his wife. Kinda feels like I am tip toeing around him afraid of another accusation about myself. I am like stop playing therapist you don't have the skills to help me in that dept. I hate when people point this **** out they wonder why I keep building walls.

My other friends asked me what if you saw someone who is aloof in the corner? I said I'd be thinking they either don't want to be there etc. I wanted to say what about those who have social anxiety issues? Not something I have but still. I feel like kinda avoiding him at social events another one of those she isn't talking much or she has been talking somewhat like wtf? When do people get to sit there and analyze other's behaviors by taking notes? That makes me resentful and it's stay out of my biz! Feels like I gotta conform to what others want you don't do this or that.

Yea, this does make it frustrating.