The trainer was not just messing around, he is totally serious. He really has a interest in me, based on a few things I said to him. Guess he likes the way I think. Love feelings, may be a bit extreme but his interest in real.

He started that job on a whim. He was supposed to be teaching overseas. He loves to travel, and is saving so he can travel in retirement. His now ex-wife was suppose to work overseas as well but her job fell through, and they stayed. Divorced after 10 years together, and they have a 14 year old son.

My remark about not waiting until retirement to do the things you want to do in life, literally shocked him. I wasn't trying to hit on him, I was really trying to state from my personal experience that waiting is not the way to go when it comes to fulfilling your dreams. Waiting until your kids of age, but retirement. That's insane.

I really had to reflect and figure out what I did, and that is it. A simple comment about living life has started all this.