Ignore the magazines and films you are a woman and therefore you are feminine I was always a ' tomboy ' at school I enjoyed being friends with boys and found other girls *****y and vicious. I could normally be found in big black army boots without shoelaces along with jeans and a t-shirt, my friends actually staged an impromptu makeover one lunch time, covering me in makeup and doing something strange to my hair I went home like it and my family nearly died laughing. It wasn't that I looked awful but the fact I looked uncomfortable in my own skin it made me feel so unlike me needless to say I didn't keep the look. I did try to be more girly but it always felt like I was wearing a costume. Once I started working and began having to wear the stereotypical supermarket uniform like everyone else around me I realised that it didn't matter what I was wearing it was me as a person that men responded to. I still only wear makeup for weddings and special occasions and even then it is only a little face powder, mascara and maybe lipstick, I don't wear heels and my hair is always done the same way but I am completely comfortable and that is more attractive than anything else and my partner bless him tells me that in his opinion I am the prettiest woman in the world.

So just concentrate on getting comfortable in your own skin and style because that is where true feminine beauty is