We gave you a lot of really good advice on your last thread, but you didn't bother to go back and read it or respond to us. The problem you are having with this woman at church is the same problem you are starting to have on this forum. You ask for something (help, rides) people give it to you, you take it, don't acknowledge or say thank-you, people start to feel put out, and then they no longer want to go out of their way to be helpful to you.

This woman is making it extremely clear she does NOT want to be your friend. She isn't saying it in those words because she is trying to be polite and trying to tolerate you because her religion tells her that she should. Most people would not be as nice as she is being to you. What you need to do is give her some space. You can't demand that someone love you or be friends with you. Pushing yourself on them harder is only going to push them away more. You either need to accept that these women are not your friends, or you need to find a new church and start over. No one "owes" you their friendship, driving you around, or inviting you to things. You have to show them what you have to offer THEM. What are you good at? What are your positive qualities? Try to think about what you can do for others.