What Bill said. Both times! <3

This is a safety issue, in addition to being just plain personally alarming. I mean, YEOW!

IDK what the WHAT it is w/males & driving -- any guy I was around much who was feeling insecure or rowdy always seemed to want to throw me in a car or (worse by far) on the back of a motorcycle and drive like Jehu. PANIC! Which maybe was the whole idea at the time -- dominance, etc.

Your BF truly sounds like a major road hazard -- A distracted Driver? Near-misses say a lot about someone who consistently has them; and imo in the near future there'll be one that does NOT miss.

Be safe. In order to have a manageable life, it's sometimes needful to take the reins (and the wheel) ourselves. You'll get it handled, I have faith. And you'd never put your kids in harms way knowingly.

xo,
Chyia, smh @ men + machines