My T talks a lot about the "space between". Admittedly I need and get a lot more contact than you , but there are still compromises we need to make (,for example we discuss my emails in session unless I request a response in a special situation. And I can text as much as I want as long as I can tolerate not always getting a response or even a response that day). My T says dealing with the frantic need for her without it being met allows me to start to explore and dispute the narrative in my head that says she does not love me. The space between contact is where deep work happens. Now, I only know what you post here of your life, but I know for me there is truth to that as long as I get enough contact that I can maintain our connection.