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Originally Posted by BudFox
When the client is obsessing or longing for the therapist, the focus is always on what is driving the client. Meanwhile the therapist might well be fueling the whole thing with her/his own insatiable needs. My T was practically giddy at times from my adoration and desire for her.
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No doubt about it. My first T was also getting a kick out of my transference and fueled it intentionally with mixed messages, which is emotional abuse plain and simple.