All of the above lol. But i chose flexibility, adaptiveness, etc. because I felt it encompassed the first option as well. Of course i want my t to be intellectual and stable, but I feel that I don't mesh well with people who aren't intellectual to some degree and i can spot a mentally/emotionally unstable person a mile away so I wouldn't dare continue with a t who showed those signs. I feel that a t who is flexible and adaptive to clients needs can be sensitive and caring if a client expresses (verbally or not) that that's something they need from a therapist, or the complete opposite if the client expresses the need for no closeness on any level and a strict professional relationship.