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Originally Posted by Loco4
Hi all,
Sometimes I hate the label of transference. Therapy is intimate, and could I not just legitimately love T. Does it have to be some representation of my past or could it just be a totally human reaction to intimacy.
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Seems to me like its always much more complicated. And though I use the word transference I hardly mean its just a projection. I do think I genuinely love him and transference is just a factor in this. Transference adds the intensity...
I read this novel in which a character points out that the most effective way of eliciting love is to take someone pain away. So I think love is inevitable...