I was having a difficult time with my daughter today and feeling like it is so hard not to want to protect her and make things work for her. I want to fix it. so i was remembering the cards from Jane that I read thursday and she adtually spoke about hurting when you kids are hurting and how it's hard to let them find their own way. She spoke about always letting them know you are there, always having a place for them but giving them room to find their way. Hard but good advice and she wrote it about her own children bacl then. I wish she was here for me to speak with, call her on the phone and say this is what's happening with my daughter, got any suggestions? I know she would have wisdom to help and just validate me as a parent. She already left a lot of wisdom with me and the cards and letters are gifts.