What is wrong with his hair and beard? I have relatives his age in Arizona and that's what they look like. I don't like the lumberjack beard and scruffy hair look that was popular in the 1960s and in Brooklyn now, but this look is awesome.

I don't like - sorry to be harsh here - when a guy kinda techie name-drops about his work or his hobby, like he wants me to ask him what he means, and then he's going to launch into some long boring techie mansplanation. Unless it's a subject I am REALLY interested in myself. It seems unfair, I know - girls expect guys to listen to the girls talk about their girlfriends their work their whatever - and girls want a guy who will talk to them - but TO and WITH them, not AT them.

I feel like... you should look for a PARTNER in life. I know that sounds like just semantics, but it's not