Everyone has their problems, but I made a good choice 31 years ago after a disasterous choice when I was way too young. We like the same music, food, entertainment. I don't watch as many races or ballgames on T.V., but I like to scrapbook and sew and read. I go to his Nascar and stock car races with him, and he helps take care of my ex riding horses who are now big pets. We do pretty good. We have 17 acres to take care of, six grandkids, and we do all the work together. I basically have it made!!