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Originally Posted by Shadix
You say to forget about age, but you keep bringing it up in your posts. It seems to me like their age is a big part of the issue for you. This is odd to me, because when you say "older men" you are talking about men your own age, not older men. I don't understand why it would bother you more to get checked out by men your own age than by younger men. If anything, the younger guys who check out older women tend to be more creepy than the middlw aged men checking out women their own age.
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In my opinion what she is saying it's not that she is bothered more or less.
I think She is saying that people who are a bit older had enough time and experience to learn basic manners and rules of behaving in a society. While some much younger men might not have the best manners yet and perhaps some take longer to mature.
It is not a big secret that as people get older they generally behave in a more conservative manner, have different life etc you don't think there is a difference between behavior of most 18 year olds and 60 year olds? Do you think people behave the same?
Hence she is somewhat shocked ( and understandably so) that some older men she observed still have not learned how to behave.
I think you are reading too much into it. It's like if someone said they saw 5 year old jumping up and down screaming and then 25 year old doing the same throwing temper tantrums. Although both events are unpleasant it is shocking that 25 year old would act like a 5 year old. By your logic you should get upset that I even mentioned age and I should make no distinction between the ages.
You yourself said that at 28 you are more like 18 year old socially speaking. And it's ok. If you turn 60 and still behave as you are 18 then it would be more concerning.
I think op us pretty clear on what she is saying. I don't see it confusing at all
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