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Old Jun 20, 2016, 07:16 PM
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Originally Posted by incas View Post
i guess didnt really get anywhere...talking in circles, that i was perceiving something that was not there...
Your T handled this very badly.

He should accept that you heard what you heard and you saw what you saw.

Then there are two follow ups:

1. "How did you feel? What did that remind you of?" etc. This way the emotion is not wasted.

2. "What I actually meant was this. How could I have communicated that better?" Then you have some reason to suppose that things will be better in the future.
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