I like carrots but can't stand celery. Seriously, why should it matter. Why should I ever contemplate forcing myself to eat celery and give up carrots. I know it may seem like a trite comparison but it is not meant as such. Preferences are inbuilt and ingrained, they are not wrong or right and anyone who believes that anyone whould change to 'fit in' are small minded, hurtful, uncompassionate and downright horrid, in my opinion.