T, I wish I could meet myself who grew up in your parenting. I want to know whether I'd be still me. It feels like our work is changing a very fundamental part of me and I feel like I'm losing who I am. What defines 'me' ? Is the new-me going to be still me? Do I want to change? You said the little-me-thinking isn't serving me. I know. It's gonna create a lot more difficulties if I don't change. But this is scary.