I don't see a point to looking for information on my partner on a forum if I'm supposed to be the trusted confidant about everything! if it's something I should know about why should I have to go looking for the information? I really don't get this thinking. If she doesn't tell me what's going on and is on a forum instead of talking to me about it, that's on her. If there is something she is looking for advice on from others and wants me to know about what she found out, then tell me so and I will read it WITH HER or with her knowledge and at her request. I just wouldn't poke around on my partner to see what she's posting on any forum or site, period - unless she gave signs she was cheating and then I doubt I would be coming to PC to look for that information anyway!

my 2c