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Originally Posted by divine1966
I really don't understand why people expect their partners read up what they post on forums in order to improve relationship. It doesn't mean one doesn't want to work on a relationship. Of course one might not want to improve relationship, but them not reading on Internet forums isn't any kind of indication of them not interested in improvement. I just don't see a connection between wanting to improve a relationship and reading what their partners post on line or posting on Internet forums themselves. I don't see the connection
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It's not just "reading what is posted", it's about being interested in the other person and being willing to participate in some way, even if it's just discussing it and caring.
Some forums are specifically for working on troubled relationships and kind of need both partners participating to be pointful. Same with the therapy. Additionally, if people say that they noticed in their relationship that their partner was unwilling to work on or improve the relationship, they're probably talking about more than the lack of forum participation, reading, or whatever else they've mentioned but it's one of those TL;DR things. Trust in the personal experiences that people say they've had. The person relating them obviously knows best what happened/is happening there.