well I don't know yet i am not allowed to talk to him, so I can't see if he's just lying, i'd be able to tell if I could speak to him, I don't know if he's sorry he did it and wants help or he's sorry he got caught, there programs in jail that help with this kinda thing, he already told his bail officer he wanted to take those, (third party information may or may not be accurate... pleading guilty is one step in the right direction because I know 100% without a doubt he is guilty, and putting more stress and sadness on us.. well I can't even think about that right now. I feel like a horrible person for even letting the thought of forgiving him someday in the far future cross my mind.