The first thing my therapist told me after I confessed my feelings and attraction to her was: "We never could, can or will have a relationship like that". There wasn't exploration nor did she let me have the feelings. That happened the session after I told her how I feel. I felt like I was castrated. I didn't buy it at the start, I asked why is it 'unethical' - no answer. The next session she told me she's seeing someone! Like - Listen we never could can will blabla but just so you know I have a boyfriend so you can even be jealous now, how good for you. The next session I got out of her that she's not attracted to me and after that I had to leave. She was grooming me emotionally just to pull the rug from under my feet. I felt humiliated, used, weak, hopeless.