Is there more here then him refusing frequent sex or not initiating it? Is there something else?

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recall you shared he never buys gifts or acknowledges holidays etc is that still an issue? I think it has to be more than just not having sex twice or once a week. Your sex drive seems incompatible but I am not sure it's abuse? Have you talked to your t? I don't know if you have MI or not but your reaction is very intense.

Are there any enjoyable aspects like enjoying time together or travel or having fun together? Do you do anything together? Are you good friends?

Taking care of each other sexual needs all the time just isn't always doable or realistic. People can't perform on demand especially if they get older

. I personally work two jobs. My moms cancer came back and spread to other organs and we are dealing with testing this week etc sex is the last thing on my mind. If having sex twice a week, because I need to meet his needs, was a requirement I would reconsider marrying my fiancé .

Did your sex drive get any less with age?

Is this really about sex or us it about not being heard or valued?

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