What makes you an abuser? Being attached even in the most unhealthy manner isn't "abuser" make. What is his rationale?
He is an idiot.

My only suggestion here is to seize any kind of contact with him ( how and why did he say all this to you? Are you still contacting him?)

And wait for an appointment with new t so you can start on path to recovery, hopefully. It will get better


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