It sounds your T is sharing quite a lot of her personal stuff, just a reflection, nothing negative about it. With her telling you those things she must understand you think about her in sexual terms? If my T told me she´d got a new boyfriend I would probably be a bit jealous as well and in a way I also would think it was uncomfortable knowing that. Perhaps I get these thoughts about T:s sexual habits more when they live a life that´s a bit similar to mine, living on their own and such.
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Originally Posted by rainbow8
TBH, yes I have. When my T was married I sometimes wondered because we talked about sex quite a bit in my sessions. After she got divorced, when she told me she had a boyfriend, I wondered again. Last year when she went on an exotic vacation with him, I actually told her I couldn't stand thinking about her having sex with him. A lot is jealousy that her sex life was and is better than mine. I don't like to think about it so much, though. It's kind of like thinking about your parents doing it. I'd rather not go there.
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