tsha,

I can relate well to your experiences, especially this week, the 25th anniversary of my mother's death. Mine was a childhood marked by abandonment (literally and emotionally), horrific abuse, multiple traumas, you name it. It has been hard to find the faith to let people into my life since then, one for fear of being hurt again and two for fearing abandoment again. So I was particularly moved by the apparent loss of your close friend, who it appears you trusted and confided it. I worry for you that this loss, especially now at this fragile time in your therapy, will further hurt your inner child and break down your ability to trust and to heal.

Please be gentle with yourself at this time and know that you -- and the child inside - are worth the struggle. Please know that you are not alone, even if some people feel the need to walk away from you. Please know that you can heal and find peace.

We are here for you.

be well,

mtd