Very much so, I've actually been talking to a friend (she's married to a similar person except her husband had already got all the help, counseling, and medication before she met him) and I think I got myself sorted out as much as I can until I can go confront him myself, but there is this restraining order, preventing me from getting any amount of closer, which I'm unsure if I should have removed or not I can get it removed on myself, I'm not giving him anything he's got alot to figure out before I decide what to do, I don't need to know whats going to happen I just need the confrontation on this matter (and i hate confrontation but I know I need it to feel better), I'm just not sure how that will look on paper...