I don't recommend you remove restraining order. Spending time with him could jeopardize custody of your children. If your kids father knows you are spending time with this man he will probably request full custody of kids and you might not even get visitations. IMHO you need to focus on your kids, not on this man. No man is worth to jeopardize your children well being and loss of self respect. Making yourself and this man feeling better is just not worth it. You have kids to worry about

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